It is nice to know that you can always be yourself, if your strong enough to admit it. There is nothing more sexy than self confidence, for nothing in life says to a woman, " I am in charge of my life and emotions, "I know where I'm going and I know what my limitations are". You build self confidence by doing things that prove to you that you can do it and not at that the times you don't are not the times to just cut bait and run. You need to come to a point in your life as a man that your need to show that your not all talk and big dreams, you need to prove to yourself that the woman your going after or the one you have been blessed with is, worth all the emotional ups and downs, and worth all the wonder. She is to be the focus, because it is that she is the investment in your your quest not to be lonely anymore..besides is that not why your chasing her to begin with.
